How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 02.07.2025 02:55

How does one succeed in life?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Ask yourself:

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

That's it for today.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

How do you handle family members who ask for handouts?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Do inmates experience boredom in jail? Can you provide an example of something an inmate might do for fun if they were bored?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Making more friends is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

I found out I have cancer—I have not told my family. We can’t afford the treatment anyway. Should I just say nothing and let nature take its course?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Procrastinates a lot.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Is mouth taping at night a legitimate anti-snoring method or is it just a popular internet trend without scientific backing?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

What I need from you?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Does not procrastinate.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.